How-to-Get-a-Girl-to-Like-You!

How-to-Get-a-Girl-to-Like-You!

1-  Have your own life. If you tend to fall into the "friend-zone", this is especially impor-tant. Girls don not like guys who have no lives, and who cling to them like plastic wrap. Some girls do like that, but for all the wrong reasons either they are in-secure and needy for atten-tion, or they are control freaks who have a need for dominat-ing guys. Unless you want to sign up for either of those scenarios, focus fill-ing your time with your own friend-ships, interest, hobbies & goals.

2-  Make an impression. There is no one size fits all solution here. What impresses one girl might make another roll her eyes. Your best bet is to be your-self. Demonstrate a unique skill, talent or some-thing difficult to do that you're proud of like playing guitar and singing in tune at the same time, something that sets you apart from the crowd. Not only will this make her feel good about you but it can boost your confi-dence too. Impress her but do not boast too much about your great achieve-ments & plans.

3-  Be her friend. Girls don not just fall for random strangers. (Well some do but the relation-ship never goes very far!) If you are in the same science class as her, learn her name. Every time she walks into class smile at her. Some-times this is all it takes for a girl to notice you. At the same time though, don not do this too often! It will just end up looking like you are obsessed with her. But if you talk to other girls too like friends of yours then she will see that you are all there. If she does not seem to see you when she walks by just say "Hi" In a friendly way. This way she will know you exist. If she is shy, she might just smile back. How-ever, if you want your relation-ship to move ahead, don not get stuck in the quick-sand that is the 'Friend-Zone'. Some-times a girl won't go out with you because she is afraid if the relation-ship ends badly, she will lose your friend-ship! To start moving things along, be a little flirty! A woman will only be intimate with a man she knows trusts & cares about & this can only be achieved with time and friendly chat.

4-  Flirt. When you see or meet a girl you like, make brief eye contact and smile. Strike up a casual conver-sation. Most importantly relax. The more you talk to girls, the more relaxed you shell become. Do not think of her as the girl of your dreams; do not worry about what will happen if you make a bad joke or if you have some-thing stuck to your teeth. She may be just as nervous & small mistakes will likely go unnoticed or be ignored. Enjoy interact-ing with this attractive friendly girl whose path crossed yours. Live in the moment. Just be careful that you do not get so caught up in the moment that you say or do some-thing you might regret later.

5-  Talk to her. Tell her what you really enjoy in life, what gets you excited and what gets her excited. Be positive. If you had a bad day, still greet her plea-santly with a big smile. Most importantly listen to every-thing she says. Whether she talks about her-self, her family, hobbies or any-thing, pay atten-tion. Some things could be useful or important to know later in the relation-ship. Nod to show that you are listening & also respond to what she says so she knows that you really are listening. Girls are very appreciative of guys who demonstrate sincere interest in what they say.

6-  Be romantic. The stereotypical icons of romance (roses, candles, chocolate and teddy bears) can only go so far. Think about what really gets that special some-one excited. Recognize what makes her unique, find and do things that only she would appreciate. What are her quirky (perhaps secret) interests, obsessions and fantasies? Whenever she is shopping, talking, or watching a movie, what makes her eyes light up? Pay attention! Girls easily notice if you still remember things they told you a long while ago. Being romantic means acknowledging how special a person is, and that means demons-trating that you know better than anyone else in the world what makes her unique.

7-  Break the touch barrier. There are several ways to touch a girl without being sleazy. Hold her coat while she puts it on. Offer her your hand when she is stepping on an uneven surface. Hold out your hand so you can lead her through a crowd. If she is worried put your hand lightly on her shoulder to comfort her. These are all polite ways to get a little closer to a girl without being creepy. Girls are delicate even if they put up a tough front, so make sure the touching is light. For example, do not slap her on the back. If you see any signs of discomfort, stop! Otherwise she will probably enjoy the affection.

8-  Compliment her. If you really like the girl, you probably appre-ciate a lot of things about her. Why not let her know? If any-thing is different or new (her hairstyle, nail polish color, shirt, etc) make note of it. The more unique the compliment, the better received it will be unless she is shallow. Most girls like being compli-mented on some-thing that makes them distinct not some-thing that plenty of other girls have. If you compli-ment her appearance, try to be original, perhaps by specifying a particular feature. Better yet compliment her personality or skills. If you are not sure what is good or bad complimenting, read my up coming post how to Compliment Girls.

9-  Make her laugh. Telling jokes or funny stories is a classic way to make a person laugh but not the only one. Find out which are her favorite comedians, funny movies, or sitcoms. Watch them with her. Be bold and think of some antics that will make her laugh. Tell her to dare you to do some-thing then do it (as long as it is not illegal of course). Laughter will come by itself if both of you are relaxed and enjoying each other is company.

10-  Ask her out. Invite her to go some-where or do some-thing with you. Make sure it is some-thing that you are both interested in. If you want show her your world. Bring her some-where that you feel comfor-table & preferably where you have or do something you are proud of. Alternatively, you can express interest in seeing her world. Is she a musician? Ask if you can see her perform. Is she a mathematician? Ask to read her report or thesis. You can also ask her to reread you notes. If you are not yet ready or comfor-table with the idea of sharing your personal lives to that extent, just go out for lunch or do some-thing simple together maybe with a small group of friends where you can get to know her better.

11-  Look Good. Work out run a mile or two do some sit ups, get a six pack, etc. Also get a tan so when you go to the pool and she is there she will be like, "wow". Girls like a guy with a tan and some muscles but do not overdo it. Girls do not like it when you have too much muscle. That just shows that you love your muscles too much. Older people usually look better with normal facial and neck fat content range.

12-  Give her high value. Women want to feel important and valued, do not pay only two pennies for her when she knows she is worth fifty pennies, figuratively speaking, use only the most diffi-cult contact method that you got that require the greatest effort, do not use a short cheap email note to ask her for her personal information or a date, but ask in person preferably at her face. Not doing this probably leads to no response or rejection of you.

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