Things men Like in
Women More Than Good Looks
Things Men Like in Women often have
nothing to do with looks, bra size or any of the standard things Ladies think
men fall for. In fact, although physical appearance is the first thing they
notice (do not girls you all?), when it comes to settling down it often comes in
last & counts the least. Believe it or not, there are at least completely
non-physical things men like in women & I am pretty sure your boyfriend
could list many more & confirm that your gorgeous physique, beautiful eyes &
soft lips are not the only things that made him fall head over heels for you!
Interested to learn more about those other things men like in women? Well, read
carefully because every man would love to be with a woman who is…
A GOOD LISTENER
Most men appreciate women who are
able to just listen – no “I told you so” lines, no lectures, tips or comments
regarding what you would do if you were in his place. You know… just sitting,
listening (& I mean REALLY listening)… just showing that you care. Oh, &
that involves being patient as well, understanding that most men need to
“process” their problems before they can talk about them & learning to say,
“Okay, baby, whenever you want to talk about it – I am here for you”.
SPONTANEOUS
Being able to “go with the flow” is
one of the things men like in women the most. Most of men would never sing in
front of girls (professional singers excluded) but they just love to hear girls
sing (even if it sounds more like howling), they love to see girls dance around
the house, they will gladly throw a surprise if they know the reaction would be
positive & they love to see girls being girls (even if it involves a
certain dose of silliness).
ACCOMPLISHED & FULFILLED
Women who actually enjoy the things
they do are more attractive, which means you should definitely stop whining
about the things you DO NOT have & start enjoying the things you DO! It is
not about being extremely beautiful, having a good job, an impressive resume or
whatnot – It is about you being happy for who you are as a person, it is about
being positive, about knowing that you are a great woman who deserves great
things. And, believe me, it is true that bad luck never travels alone, but the
same can be said for good luck as well.
ABLE TO ENJOY HER FOOD
Eating healthy food & trying to
cut down on unnecessary calories is one thing, obsessively counting them is
something completely different &, while this first thing is actually good
for you, the second one won’t really impress him. Being able to go out to a
restaurant or a pizza place, to relax, to have a good time & talk about
your food in terms of how good it tastes instead of how fat It is going to make
you shows that you are confident… & you already know confidence is one of
the things men (real men) like in women – don’t you?
A GOOD COOK
Our grandmas used to say that the
only way to get to a man’s heart is through his stomach – remember that one?
Well, ladies did learn by now that is not the only way although it certainly is
one of the ways &, if I may add, a very good one. Men love women who can
cook & women who would be willing to learn to cook for them. That is when
that traditional part of the brain turns on to note the woman in question would
be a good wife. It is a cliché, I know, but even experts agree on this one!
REAL
Although fake girls with their fake
this, that & everything turn a lot of heads & probably get a lot of
free drinks, most men have agreed they could never choose a girl like that for
something more than just a casual romance. Whoa! What a coincidence – Girls feel
the same way about fake guys! LOL! Which leads us back to that ideal, fun
loving, girl next door all guys love– a girl that likes to smile & does not
care what others think of her smile (thin lips, teeth or whatever), a girl that
can tell a joke, a girl that does not use “words” like O.M.G or T.T.Y.L, a girl
that won’t have a nervous breakdown every time her mascara starts running… a
REAL girl!
READY TO COMPROMISE
Every man feels better when he knows
his lady is ready to negotiate & work hard to find a solution that will be
acceptable for both sides so hope you are ready to compromise girls, because,
although guys like boobs & long legs, they all agree this non-physical
quality is far more important.
CARING
He really wants to know that you care
for him but, be careful, because repeating “I love you” until he can not take
it anymore is not a good way to let him know how you feel. An average man will
tell you that he loves you once & show you how much he loves you five
times. You should do the same. Baby him when he is sick or tired, surprise him
every once in a while, listen to his problems – SHOW him everything you wanted
to tell him because this quality is one of the very important things men like
in women.
FUNNY
A sense of humor is also one of the
things men like in women, especially in women they are planning to settle down with!
Time to find your funny bone, ladies! Now, I wonder why that is so… are they
planning to make a lot of jokes or they just want to make sure you are able to
find positive or maybe even funny sides in the future events that are not
guaranteed to be stress free & easy? LOL! Do not know but a sense of humor
definitely gets my vote!
TAKING CARE OF HERSELF
Could you believe this is one of the
things men like in women? I mean, come on, could it be? They actually LIKE when
you spend money on all those crèmes & beauty products? Well, hold on to
your chairs now, ladies, because the experts say the answer is “Yes”. Taking
care of yourself shows him you’ll take good care of him as well & since
they are the ones who enjoy all the benefits of your waxing, beauty treatments &
shopping, they might as well admit they like it.
STRONG
The last but not the least – one of
the best things men like in women, a quality like no others, a virtue that no
woman of today could live without – strength. You do not have to lose your best
damsel in distress act, in fact, you can even let him “save” you once in a
while, but he has to know you’ll be there in case things start to get ugly. He
has to know that there is a strong rock he can grab for under that delicate
butterfly façade of yours – a woman he can count on.
You see, things men like in women are
almost the same as the things women like in men. Interesting, huh? Certainly!
Do you know of any other things men like in women? Feel free to ask your man,
too!
