"There is no sight on earth more appealing than the sight of a woman making dinner for someone she loves." Thomas Wolfe (1900-1938)
Although most women find that statement sexist or offensive, it is true. I mean what woman would not want a man that was a chef in the kitchen as well as in the sack!? It is human nature for us to look for resources that will enable us to nourish our lives. So when a man finds a woman that can cook her ass off, he pretty much feels like he hit the jackpot. WOw thing.
But, the new age woman does not like to be told what her place is or what her role as a “woman” is in society. And unfortunately some of women have been so resistant to falling into the whole “homemaker” category that we have completely blocked out the concept of having dinner on the table for your man. A lot of women in their 20’s & 30’s have taken a hit when it comes to cooking skills just because we have been repressed for so long as the ones that “belong in the kitchen,” we stay out of that bitch & embrace the idea that the “modern woman” does not need to be domestically over-focused & trained.
Definitely ladies, be a pro-woman & any chance you get to beat a man at his own game, go jump to it. But, ladies you must also know how to get a man’s heart. It truly is an art craft to understand a man & his way of thinking. The most curious creature, because when it comes to affairs of the heart, they are so easily deterred if their focus is not kept. An ongoing game, that cycles through ever social network of every species in the world.
That means men have short-attention spans & are always looking for the next best thing.
In order to keep their attention, & make sure they do not find a reason to go wandering for new love. You must shape their world’s when they are with you.
When he is with you, you want him to feel like there is no other in the entire universe that could capture your interest more than him. You make sure that you take care of him like no other woman can. It means, pay attention to details. If your BooBie Cat (man) is sick, get him some pleasant cough drops & soothing medicines that he can think of your compassion for him while he is sucking & swallowing. LOL. But, for real- things like that make the bond stronger between you & your man, since you are showing him with actions that his well-being is in your best interest.
LOYALTY. Men love it. Making them feel like they are your one & only will add value to your position in his life.
ONE & ONLY 100% WORKING TYPE OF MEALS:
I suggest cooking “comfort foods” for your man. Makes sure you do a little screening to see if there is anything in particular they do not care for. Things like cookies, cakes & brownies are always sweet & thoughtful. All boys love food made with love & since most of them do not know the intricacies of baking; you can pretty much pull off a Betty Crocker mix as homemade without breaking a sweat from guilt while scoring a 10 with your honeybun.
Are you planning to have your BooBie Cat over for the night? Why not let him wake up to breakfast in bed? Not many folks can fuckup breakfast. It is really the easiest & safest meal to make. Here is the tip.
1- Get a nice serving tray- presentation is everything.
2- Scrambled Eggs: Most men will eat at least 3 eggs scrambled. Trick can be add a teaspoon of sour cream, salt & pepper to the eggs- whisk that up & before you know it- you’ll have some pretty, fluffy- restaurant style eggs that will definitely be a change from what they are used to. (Make this last though, you do not want to have cold food!)
3- Turkey Bacon. Easy enough?
4- Grits & Cheese is a winner. Especially when your up top since most men do not expect a woman to know how to chef up some Grits. Get the Instant kind. Follow the directions for your serving size. You can add lots of butter, cheddar cheese, salt & pepper.
5- Toast. I do not have to explain how to make toast but cut with care. Maybe slice a pair down the middle in a diagonal way. It is the thought that counts.
6- Juice. Something sweet & refreshing. Orange is always good. Champagne if you are feeling FRISKY! lol
7- Presentation: Toast on a separate plate. Throw the rest on a big plate, keeping the different components neat. Nobody wants their eggs smashed into their grits & bacon. Plus, you are setting precedence here. No other chick is going to be slicing up strawberries to garnish plates with. Make sure you make him remember that.
8-Flowers are also a nice touch. You want him to think of you when he sees roses and cake!!
So this lesson is a quick crash course on some ideas for the non-cook in you ladies.
Hope it helps you in bonding your love stronger, do not just wish to have a sweet home but be home maker ladies!
